This time they took me to Cambridge!

What a great, if slightly wet day out in Cambridge we had yesterday and circumstances allowed me to go too. I even have a train selfie to prove it! This was clearly before we all became drowned rats by the end of the day. The fossil museum was spell binding and I loved looking around it with the girls. We do have a slight problem in the fact that because I have an amateur interest in fossils, the girls think I am an expert and ask me questions I have not a hope in accurately answering. However it is lovely and flattering that they view me in this way! Great to see Ben for a spot of lunch and a guided tour of Trinity college and that he is doing so well. I do fancy a trip back soon to go around the museum again, as I missed so much and we had probably reached the girls capacity of tolerance as shopping and spending money was calling them! A memorable family day out...

Lest we forget....

This weekend I have had much cause to be very proud of both the girls. Lucy carried the standard for the Brownies in the remembrance parade in our home town today. I found the experience of watching her quite an emotional one. I have not served in the armed forces, but having had the privilege of caring for several World War two veterans in my career; I cannot do anything but stop and reflect on the courage they displayed to give my family the life of peace and opportunity we have today, so I am very pleased that Lucy took part with enthusiasm, respect and understanding. Anna has had her own battles this weekend and come through the other side with real dignity and a positive nature. On Saturday she made her debut for the Fakenham under 8's second team and they were on the receiving end of quite a beating in a 26-0 score line!  Whilst Amy witnessed the carnage in the rain and I did not see this game, I really feel for Anna. This is quite a life lesson to learn for one so young and a pretty harsh one at that! I am amazed and very proud of her determination to make sure next weeks game the team improves and does better. Real fighting spirit Wiggle!

What a whopper!

A bracing Sunday walk on West Runton beach brought Lucy the most fantastic of rewards - she is the first Hammond or person I have ever known in fact to find a whole Belemnite fossil embedded in a large flint. The downside was supporting her to carry it all the way to Cromer. My past is definitely coming back to haunt me after all those times I made Grandma carry rocks and fossils for years all over the country on family holidays! Well chuffed Lucy. Anna seems to be calming down in the last week and we have much less argumentative behaviour under very clear boundaries. I do not want to tempt fate but she might be getting it! She said something wonderful to Amy a couple of days ago that showed her lovely caring nature. 'Mum if something happens to you - I will give you imagination hugs'. Nothing is wrong with Mrs Hammond thankfully, so I am not sure where that level of insight and emotion came from, but you have got to love our Anna! 

Growing up does not always take a smooth path...

I breath a deep parental sigh as I write this. We have a very argumentative and confrontational Anna on our hands at the moment and I am just a little battle weary. She is once again going through a phase where she is trying to assert herself, but does not listen to things she is asked to do and is determined to do her own thing. Every night we have had the same conflict and every night she is not learning her lesson. What to do with a confrontational Anna? I am exasperated, baffled and at a complete loss at what to do. On the other hand, one of the comedy side effects of both girls growing up so fast is they are becoming body aware and everything is about comedy boobies, bottoms and bodily functions and they find all related to this worth a giggle and they are right! As demonstrated by the picture to the left! I will calm down and have another chat with Anna tomorrow night when I get home and see whether we can iron this out. I am not trying to encourage her to be an ever compliant and robotically obedient person, I want her to have free will and control, but I just need her to meet me half way on occasion and bloody listen to her father!

Celebrating Mrs Hammond's non birthday birthday!

Today is Mrs Hammond's actual birthday, but due to work commitments and a reluctant protagonist we celebrated Amy's birthday yesterday and I think we struck gold! Presents were a success, a wonderful roast dinner at Kate's and a potter around Norwich with Libby and the girls. Understated as Amy likes things. Next year we have to pull out all the stops for the big forty though! I learned two marital lessons today that will stand me in good stead for future engagements - a gag such as 'blow Mrs Hammond!' as your wife goes to blow out her candles always brings out a beautiful smile and when buying your wife a bracelet (helping Lucy) make sure you do not infer her wrist is the same size as yours. Not advisable in any circumstances! Happy birthday Amy and see you when you're forty! xx

Greetings from planet ten!

Today my baby girl turned the ripe old age of ten, I have to accept she is not so much my baby anymore, in fact she gets more and more grown up each day. I, on the other hand feel very tired and old today as Lucy and her friends woke us up at 4.20am. By 6am they were in the kitchen making dodgy chocolate pancake mix without the eggs! (Amy tells me this is the setting agent in the recipe and quite important - shows how useless I am!) Anyway back to the birthday girl - I think she has had a great day and she loved her presents and was appreciative and thankful as ever. I was quite happy as we bought her lots of Sylvanian families and Shopkins goodies and this calms me quite a bit, as it shows me she is not in that much of a hurry to grow up. Remember Lucy - enjoy your childhood. Now you are in double figures it is all down hill! Happy birthday darling. You are very much loved. Amy and I were remembering today that long, worrying, emotional, amazing, painful for Amy and exhausting day you came into our lives and changed it forever. xx 

A budding entrepeneur in the making....

She may have the face of an innocent child and despite her young years, Anna is actually a very shrewd operator and at times displays the life skills and knowledge of playing the game of that of an adult. This week, via a fellow parent, we discovered that Anna had been selling her small car boot bargains for a profit to her friends at school. Quite the entrepreneur! She definitely knows what she is doing that one! Amy and I strained, frowned and tried to look very stern as we collectively told her off and imparted our parental wisdom with a big push to ensure she adheres to the school rules and etiquette, but after she had gone upstairs found it very difficult to contain our giggles and laughter.  Whilst she has done the wrong thing, you can't but help being slightly proud of her ingenuity, cunning and intelligence to get that far. She is a maverick and we are going to have to watch her closely in the future! It does bring back memories of her hoarding the five pence collection under her bed when she was two! (Proud but trying to be cross father this week!)