Thursday 27 June 2019

She may have been right....

Amy was right; having Meg is hugely positive for my well being. I love the walks we go for and this time with her. I'm stupidly fond of her already only after having her for a few months. With the recent horrific weather and constant rain, I really missed that hour in the woods and the exercise. Keep this up and I will be a shadow of my former self. A dog is a integral part of any family and just as important as any human. Meg is lovely, she is giving, playful and so very loving. She doesn't always do as she is told, but this is no different to any of the women or little ladies in my life! I love this time, with the breeze on my face, sunshine and surrounded by the beautiful emerging nature in the woods. I wish I could drum up more enthusiasm in the kids to come for the walks, but if I am honest it has become my thing and I don't like to share this time, only with Mrs Hammond! Kids, you are banned! Its time to wash away the day and breathe. I am grateful for the peace that walking with Meg brings me. Yesterday's walk was a bit emotional, as Auntie's gravestone will go in soon and it feels like the last thing I will do for her and all a bit final. Grief is a funny thing, it creeps up on you and hits you on the back like a wave, it certainly came up on me yesterday when I least suspected it. I was grateful it was just me and Meg in the woods on our own, to give me time to get myself together. Anna's birthday in a few days and can't wait to share the wonderful gifts she has got with her. She's going to be one Lucky girl!

Tuesday 18 June 2019

Sarcasm and pride are layered throughout the Hammond house!

Father's day went in a flash this weekend of catching up with work, tired children after a long week at school and some not so nice weather. I got some lovely gifts from the girls, although I am truly not sure they had much to do with the purchase of them! Both girls made me a lovely hand made card. Lucy's being hilarious, sarcastic and competitive, Anna's being solely focused for some reason on me eating all the time! I am grateful for the love they show me, although intermittent at times if they can't drag themselves away from devices! Lucy won't allow me to take any photos of her at present and Anna begrudgingly obliges, so no photo of my eldest. Pictured left is Anna holding her Manager's 'Player of the season' trophy, that she picked up again this year, it's becoming quite a habit. I confess to tears in my eyes as she received it and real pride in her efforts, heart and a real pleasure to witness some of the amazing saves she has pulled off this year. She dedicated her award to her Grandma - 'would she be proud dad, would she be proud', she said in the car. A resounding 'yes' was the simple answer. She has grown so much as a goal keeper this year, she might need to actually grow a bit more ready for next year or she might just get lobbed quite a bit!!! Lucy continues to quietly excel at school, getting the equivalent of an 'A' grade GCSE in her recent history assessment. A great achievement! This makes me beam with pride as this was my favourite subject at school and I would love her to go on and choose this for GSCE. I say again, soon she will be choosing options for GCSE's!!!! Ahh - how old I must be getting to be in the position to say that. Time just keeps on going and going. The girls have kindly granted me a stay of execution and the age limit for 'pre-elderly' juice has been risen to forty-seven, two more years to go!

Wednesday 5 June 2019

A very hot and tiring weekend...

How a week can change the weather. Last weekend I supported my warrior girl in back to back day long football tournaments in the searing and humid heat. It was tough going watching, let alone playing! Saturday went well with Anna and the boys credibly gaining a win and a draw in a tough group full of great teams. She made some incredible saves and managed to legally take out a lad twice the size of her. A very brave run out of her area to cut off a member of the opposition! My heart was in my mouth a bit!  Pure joy to watch. Although they did not progress to the second round, they played some good stuff. Sunday was a different story and dealt some real opportunity for some life lessons for the kids. A significant change of rules that they collectively struggled to grasp and the worlds worst referee meant things did not initially go well. I tried to counsel Anna and the team not to focus on what they thought were unjust decisions, which meant a real loss of confidence and concentration. Anna and the boys calmed down and grew into each game as it got hotter and hotter, finishing brightly and starting to play some good football in the end, with spirits raised. It was very easy for them to have a moan about the ref, not so easy to put it aside and show maturity in focusing on something else. She did well, as did her team mates in turning the afternoon around. I truly loved spending the weekend with her x